I've never ever been Mother but I got the experience from my friend.
It's really hard to be Mom and it's harder to be a good mom too.
Something happened with my friend that i love like my sister.
I knew she was prenent for a while and she looked be happy.
She said that when she was sick and wanted to vomit, she was glad to be mother.
Her income was not good and her boyfriend didn't have full time job, so she had to try double before giving birth.
This resulted, she was pain her tummy after absorption any bleeding. She tried to take a rest at home but it was too late. Yesterday morning, It was happened to her. (Misscarried)
She told me that she cried a lot and felt pressured and she felt guilty that the miscarriage.
I tried to comfort her **This may be a first pregnancy. Makes you think does not matter, so you tried to continue your work**. She blamed herself because of her.
I softly told her that next time you know what you should do
and take care herself and should listen to the advice of all.
Today I went to her apartment with pizza. I knew It was not good food but It was better than another thing i couldn't find in the morning. She could eat anything since yesterday even trying to eat. I managed to call a doctor and took her to the hospital.
I tried to placate her comfortable.
After she recieved the check then she felt relief.
Everything go well now. I feel happy for her.
Hope that she would return to the fomer soon.
I know It's really difficult to have a child because you don't know what will happen to you.
When a child is born. Raising it to him to be a good person.
This is what I called for The Human.